People with secure attachment are in harmony with themselves and others. They build relationships on mutual sympathy. They are able to truly love, care, trust and show emotions. It is believed that because of their high adaptability, they are the easiest to create healthy relationships. According to a study by sociologists published in the journal Personal Relationships, these people often listen to the lyrics of a song rather than listening to music in the background to calm themselves down. They like classical, folk, soft rock, pop rock, surf music, jazz and blues the most. Favourite artists include Erik Satie, Cher, Whitney Houston, The Beatles, Ed Sheeran, John Legend, Michael Bublé, Beach Boys, Bryan Adams, Justin Bieber.
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The anxious attachment type is most afraid of being rejected, so they are always looking for reassurance in a relationship. As children, their parents often left them alone, so they felt betrayed. At the same time, they were happy when mum or dad came back to them, but there was resentment attached to the feelings. The world seems fickle and unstable to them, so they find solace in melancholic music. In their playlist you can find compositions in the spirit of Visual Key, symphonic and gothic metal, R’n’B, soul, funk, alternative rock. For example, Adele, The Police, Miley Cyrus, U2, Bruno Mars, Drake, Evanescence
